The Work of Dr. Lauren – The Queer Women’s Psychologist
Welcome. For over two decades, I’ve been helping lesbians and queer women heal from the inside out. My work transforms the way they relate to love, intimacy, identity, and themselves, but it goes far beyond the therapy room or coaching container.
✨ My Mission
To help lesbians and queer women heal dysfunctional relationship patterns, recover from heartbreak, and build deeply fulfilling, soul-aligned lives through trauma-informed, queer-affirming psychology and transformational coaching.
Whether you’re an individual looking to finally find lasting love or an organization wanting to bring more inclusive, soul-centered conversations to your stage or platform—there’s a way to work together.
🌈 Ways to Work With Me
💖 Courses & Programs
Mini-Course Healing Heartbreak: A Recovery Guide for Queer Women
This 5-video mini-course, Healing Heartbreak, guides queer women through the healing process after a painful breakup, offering strategies and exercises to reclaim emotional well-being and build resilience for future happiness.
My premiere 12-week course, The Journey to True Love, helps lesbians and queer women heal relationship wounds and finally create the kind of love they’ve been longing for.
More offerings are coming soon—including mini-courses and soulwork for deepening intimacy, self-worth, and connection.
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🎙️ Podcast Guesting & Media
I’ve been featured in publications like Psychology Today, SheWired, and Curve Magazine. I love having meaningful conversations about healing, psychology, and queer relationships.
I Co-hosted The Consciousness Salon with my dear friend Alana Roshay from 2019-2022, where we explore identity, transformation, queerness, social justice and collective healing through deep, unfiltered dialogue.
Whether it’s an interview, expert commentary, or a story that needs a queer lens—I’m here for it.
✨ Dr. Lauren Costine – Speaking & Podcast Topics
I speak at events across the U.S. and globally on topics such as:
• Queer and Lesbian identity & emotional wellness
• The psychology of lesbian love & intimacy
• Healing shame, trauma, and internalized phobias
• Creating inclusive and affirming spaces for LGBTQIA+ people
• The Inner Journey: Transformational Healing from the Inside Out — exploring how self-awareness, shadow integration, and spiritual-psychological practices can liberate queer women from survival patterns and guide them into empowered, authentic living
Let’s create a powerful and transformative experience for your audience.
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🧠 Consulting & Collaboration
Need support designing inclusive
mental health or wellness programs?
Looking for a queer-focused consultant to elevate your content or community offerings?
I partner with conscious brands, content creators, and healing professionals who want to get it right—and reach LGBTQ+ audiences with depth and authenticity.
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If something in my work speaks to you—reach out.
Whether you want to join a course, book me for a keynote, or collaborate on a big vision—I’d love to hear from you.
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Lesbian Affirmative Therapy
Lesbian-affirmative psychotherapy focuses on helping individuals heal from the negative impacts of growing up in a world that can be discriminating towards lesbians, queer women, and non-binary folks. It increases self-esteem, sense of self, and feelings of self-love by confronting the damaging effects of growing up in a misogynistic, sexist, heterosexist, and homophobic world.